Summer plans, wishes, desires
It seems that I've become synonymous with going places. A common question people ask me now usually somehow comes in the form of "are you going anywhere soon?" or "any trips planned?" Part of me feels some level of pride for being associated with being a little traveler but at the same time, I'm unsure as to how to feel about that. There seems to be some level of irresponsibility that comes with being a wreck-less traveler, that is, being someone that makes a last-minute (or nearly so) plan to go to another province or country - and doing so as often as I do. That's not to say I'm someone that will just decide that tomorrow I'm going to go on a road-trip but if the opportunity were to arise, as long as my bases were covered, why not?
Traveling is one of a few things I definitely want to do this summer. I enjoy going to new places, or places I've been a few times before. It brings perspective and a new appreciation for things on multiple levels. With that said, this week kicks off the start of summer in that sense. Adam and I will be making our semi-routine road-trip to Boston for a few days.
Other plans for this summer? There are a few concerts coming up that I'll want to attend. Kathleen Edwards is the basis behind the Boston trip as she's playing in Maine next week so we'll be seeing her on the way back. Serena Ryder and Sarah Harmer are headlining a music festival in Lockeport, Nova Scotia in July. Bruce Springsteen is doing Moncton in August which I would love to go see and admittedly, I do want to see Hanson when they play the Casino in Halifax August 23.
Pride Week is always a fun time in Halifax in the middle of July. I typically only take part in a few events each year but every year I tell myself that I'll participate in more so we'll see how that works out this year.
There have been talks of a trip to Vancouver at the end of the summer as well. Nothing concrete has been planned at this point but I've always wanted to go to the west coast. I have images of Vancouver in my mind that I want to see whether they're close to reality or not.
As for some things I want to do this year includes what is becoming a life-long goal of losing 30lbs. I've begun biking again in hopes of helping to kickstart some sort of a routine that results in me being able to fit into my barely worn yet lovely jeans I got a few years ago. In the middle of bike riding and imaginary sports-playing, I do have a lot of books I want to finish. The Hunger Games trilogy is first on my list but I also have the entire TinTin graphic novel series to read as well as a few books on photography because I'm finally going to (a)learn how to use my Digital-SLR camera and (b)get back into photography and maybe turn that into a side-hobby again (along with every other side-hobby I have... and there are a lot). All of these can be accompanied with spending time in the parks. The Public Gardens, Point Pleasant, etc, reading and photography. Makes for a nice way to spend a relaxing sunny day.
At the end of the summer, I'm sure I'll be recounting what I've done this summer. Hopefully I can recount some great memories and lots of stories set in 25 degree sunny day weather!
Now leaving Toronto
For the past several years, I've had this desire to move out of Halifax to a much bigger city that has more going on. In my recent travels, my desires would see myself living in a European city, possibly Germany, but realistically, another Canadian city would be where I'd be living. I decided I liked Toronto more than both New York City and Montreal. New York being just too big and too soulless and Montreal just not striking my fancy. That leaves Toronto and Vancouver. The latter I've yet to visit but the former I spent last week in.
"Reading week" is our equivalent to "Spring break", just without the beaches and boobs but with the beer. A lot of people probably actually use that time to do reading and catch up on assignments and homework that has accumulated over the last month and a half. For what is perhaps the first time in my extended university career, I've used it to actually travel and I returned to Toronto.
Unlike my first time to the big city nearly two years ago, I didn't have any actual plans on what I wanted to do. I wasn't going as a tourist but simply a visitor. People to see, things to possibly do. Friends of mine offered suggestions on things to check out, places to eat at and stores to shop at, but being the sole traveler, I realized while there that doing many of these things alone just didn't do it for me so I simply did what I did best, wandered around on my own as if it were my city.
I didn't spent all of this time alone. I stayed with a friend and got to experience the downtown scene for a few nights. Definitely fun but it hit me that if I lived in Toronto, I likely wouldn't see myself as part of this crowd too often. I hate to use the "age" card on myself because as anyone who knows me can attest, I hate knowing that I'm getting older but I think I've grown out of the club scene, which almost depresses me as sometimes there's nothing more fun than going dancing with a bunch of your favourite people to some of your favourite songs. Of course, maybe the people aspect was what I was missing as I only knew a few of the people there those nights.
Most of the week, during the day, my friend was working so I got to explore the city on my own. This meant taking subways, walking the busy streets, looking for rest stops and meeting up with other people I knew that lived in the city. There's certainly an abundance of places to visit should you have the time or money. But as a visitor, not a tourist, I was more interested in getting acquainted with the city as if it were my home. What would I do there that was equivalent to what I do now? I visited a lot of coffee shops and went to a lot of record stores.
By the end of it, I was ready to leave the city a few days earlier than scheduled. Not because I was sick of it but because I had reached the point where my explorations had come to an end. There was nothing left for me as a citizen to want to do there on my own. Thus, making me reconsider my decision to want to move to Toronto. Don't get me wrong, it's a great city and would likely suit me more as far as events, concerts and other opportunities are concerned, but there were aspects of it that presented itself to me. Rent would be incredibly expensive compared to where I live now, for spaces that I don't think would even come to close to what I currently have. Eating out would become a challenge as there would almost always be a line-up at any restaurant I'd want to go to - which would lead me to resort to eating fast food. There are so many Starbucks, Second Cups and other coffee shops that it might be difficult to have that one neighbourhood coffee shop. Part of what I like about the smaller numbers where I live now is that the ones I go to I've become accustomed to and enjoy that aspect of comfort. It also seems that living in a big city doesn't necessarily mean more variety. Some of the people I did talk to mentioned how they rarely ever leave their neighbourhoods unless they're specifically going somewhere else as everything they need is within a few blocks from their homes. That, for me, gave me the image of being trapped in a way. I need the variety.
The biggest thing I realized while away is that what makes a great city isn't so much what it has to offer. Halifax has pretty much the same options as Toronto does, just in smaller numbers, but what Toronto didn't have was a sense of community for me. Naturally, that would be something that would be gained over time as I met more people but there were times when I felt lonely and even bored. I think there was only so much exploring I was willing to do before I decided that unless I had a destination, I didn't want to wander around anymore.
I still feel like I'd have more thinking to do should the option of moving arise anytime soon. But it's definitely nice to have the opportunity to explore and experience a city beforehand. I've finally come to the realization that the size of the city no longer matters but what I'm able to get from it. Maybe later this year, I can experience my other choice for a Canadian destination - Vancouver. By then, I can narrow it down to four choices: Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver or staying in Halifax. What would you choose?
Back from Montreal
Last night, Adam and I got back from a weekend trip to Montreal. We flew there Friday afternoon where we checked into our hotel and eventually made our way to Rue Saint Catherine and had lunch and looked around. Being Canada Day, most of the stores, malls and shops were open so admittedly, there wasn't a whole lot to do once we walked around and realized this. We got tired and headed back to take a nap.
While heading out to find something for dinner, we were told by other guests at the hotel that there were fireworks on the waterfront which happened to be just a few minute walk from the hotel, which had us walk through Old Montreal which was pleasantly pretty. Most of the roads were made of stone or brick for a very European look while restaurants and shops were tucked in the walls and corners.
Saturday was filled with more exploring and walking around, visiting different stores and areas before returning back to get ready for the Katy Perry concert. Sunday, we got up, checked out of the hotel and made our way north of downtown to Rue Mont-Royal and the area for an adventure involving macarons. There were at least half a dozen shops listed on Yelp that sold macarons. We opted for going to two of those. Worth the hour walk which included passing through Parc La Fountaine.
Overall, it was a nice weekend. Montreal was a fun city to visit despite only being there for a few days so we weren't able to really do a lot of exploring. Everyone we spoke with did speak English which certainly made things easier though both of us were prepared to speak French if need be. I didn't have a problem reading signs and menus since they rarely ever have prepositions and few verbs, which are always my weak points with languages other than English.
In comparing Montreal to other cities I've visited, I feel like I may have to defend my opinion on it because I didn't care for it as much as Toronto. In both instances, I went during July where the temperature and weather were both fairly similar. I found Montreal to lack the greenery that a city like Halifax is known for and that even Toronto had. It seemed to me that people and businesses put the effort into making the inside look nice but the outside portion lacked. I've always said that a little bit of green can liven a place up and it really does make a difference. There was so much concrete and sidewalk but very little grassy spaces. I also found it hard to wrap my head around the layout of the city itself. Whether the organization is a bad thing or not, I couldn't get in tune with the order of the layout of the city. I typically knew where I was in relation to other areas but it just felt so odd to me.
Now, I'm certainly expecting someone to make the defensive claim that it's because I can't speak french that I didn't love the city and I'll reply back swiftly with one word: Germany. Montreal was a nice place to visit and I'll definitely go back again because I know we missed so much but I don't think it would be a place I would want to live. Either way, we did have a good time!
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Bonjour
And the next plan of action in my travels is Montreal. This one is just for a weekend in July. Adam and I will be flying up on Friday and coming back Sunday. We'll be there for Canada Day and while there will be seeing Katy Perry and Robyn in concert.
Montreal is one of the cities in Canada that I've wanted to go to. I've always been cut between there and Toronto as cities that I'd live in but imagined Toronto as a more suitable place to live while Montreal would be a travel destination. Of course, having never been I can't say that for sure so I'll know when I come back if I like it more than Toronto. Either way, I miss big city environment.
New York Photos
Just uploaded some photos from New York in the Travels section. Of course, here's a quick shortcut directly there.
New York, New York
After spending a full week in New York City, life in Halifax feels just that much more limiting. I'm not saying that New York is instantly better than Halifax because it's bigger and therefore bigger is better. Definitely not. I do love Halifax but returning here and seeing just how small the buildings are, and how small the downtown area is was probably more of a culture shock than going to New York was.
In New York, there was always somewhere to go and something to do. I imagine living there would get rather expensive if you were the type to always want to do something. Considering every major (and minor) concert tour has a stop or two in NYC, not to mention broadway shows and other major events, suddenly going to the movies seems like a vast waste of time. I think if I lived there, I'd instill in me a never-the-same-place-twice rule. Even if I wanted to go to a chain like Starbucks, there's enough locations within a one mile radius that it would probably take a year for me to return to the same one twice.
On the subject of living in New York, I don't think it's something that I would want to do. At least not alone. I imagine that it would be difficult for me to move there by myself and meet people. While there, I felt the general attitude of the people there to be of indifference. I won't say they were *rude*. I actually don't remember any specific encounters with rude people. But there were few with people that were nice. It seems most people prefer to have a self-involved attitude or just simply were indifferent toward anyone else. Customer service doesn't seem to be a priority among the service industry. There just lacks a certain level of charm toward fellow people that I'm used to. I just imagine myself possibly feeling very lonely there. Lonely by indifference.
The city itself is very loud. Cars and horns and crowds. This wouldn't be something that would deter me though. Although the crowds can be frustrating if in a rush and line-ups are the norm, which is something I'd rather avoid. Unfortunately, my favourite part of NYC was Times Square. Go figure. The epitome of noise and crowdedness but I found it so fascinating. So many displays and logos. One of my biggest annoyances though, that also comes with the area of Midtown Manhattan was with all the people giving out flyers or trying to sell you something. As if the ads on the buildings and posters weren't enough, people are also walking advertisements. "Comedy show!" "Grand opening!" "Flashdancers!" Hand-outs of flyers for everything from McDonalds and Subway openings to business space for rent. People wearing signs. Flyers. Cards. Everywhere. Take. Take. Take. That was a bit much for me. I'll take the crowded sidewalks over that for sure.
Honk! It seems car horns are pointless in New York. A lot of side-streets had signs offering a $350 fine for cars caught honking. Refreshing. Frustrating was the endless honking on the main avenues and streets. If the light turns green and the first car hasn't already moved, there's already a horn sounding. But with so many horns, it eventually blends in as background noise and the only people it effects are the tourists like me. But maybe it adds to the charm that makes up New York?
Also interesting was how it seemed like the rules of traffic and cars vs. pedestrian seem to essentially be guidelines rather than rules. People wait for the light to change by standing a few feet from the sidewalk curb and cut through moving traffic to cross the street. Cars maneuver through pedestrians like kids on a waterslide. It amazed me how the two were both at odds with each other but yet still so in sync. It's like they inconvenience each other but at the same time, they're indifferent to the existence of the other.
New York has a lot of must-see attractions. A lot of which we didn't get to see unfortunately. The Statue of Liberty was out this time. We made our way to Ground Zero but the timing was off. It was the end of the workday and the crowds got to be too overwhelming so we had to leave before being able to pay proper respects. Central Park was a go though. It was a nice spot. Lots of fields but it didn't feel very parky to me. Maybe it was the presence of the road that cut through that was busy with taxis that took away the peaceful feeling that I expected or maybe I'm just used to the idea of a full victorian garden like the Halifax Public Gardens or a more natural feel like Point Pleasant Park. But in a huge city like New York, Central Park would make for a wonderful getaway from city life if only just for an afternoon.
Broadway was a treat. Wicked was amazing. Everything I knew about the Wizard of Oz went up in smoke like the wicked witch of the west after making contact with the bucket of water. All I can say is: who knew? Really? Adam scored me a copy of the book for my reading pleasure, which is first on my list of books to read once I make reading room for it. Avenue Q was an off-broadway show which was also very fun. Hilarious and purposely cheesy but also slightly low-brow and, as the song goes, "(everyone's a little bit) racist sometimes!"
Most of the days we spent walking throughout midtown taking in various sights. Broadway, Madison Avenue, 6th Avenue, Greenwich, Times Square and everything in the area. Walking for over an hour in a single direction made me feel like I was walking in circles. Eventually, you realize you're seeing the same stores over again and when surrounded by skyscrapers and people and cars, it starts to look the same. The good side of this is that you don't have to travel far to hit up any store you want. The bad thing... record stores don't exist in NYC.
I did enjoy the city though. Come Friday night, the last night in the city, I realized that I was going to miss it there. I quickly grew attached to New York and everything it had to offer. But it was also nice to return to a city that's still behind the times when it comes to the ability to purchase music. Albeit a very small city but at least we still have HMVs!
(photos will be added to the travel section as soon as I format them for the website.)
Travel bug
My relationship with traveling has gone from "meh, whatever" to "Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!" And the changeover from one to the other happened quite fast!
Growing up, my family and I didn't really do much traveling or vacationing. When I was 4, we and a couple other families from my town went on a 10-day vacation to Prince Edward Island. For years, the memories I had retained from that stayed in my mind as if it was THE vacation that might never be topped. Memories of swimming pools, parks, museums, rides and a particularly awesome dry lightning storm.
Ten years later, my sister and parents went to Toronto to visit a few of my aunts who lived nearby or slightly north in much less rural areas. That wasn't so much a "vacation" for vacation's sake as it was visiting relatives who didn't live within driving distance. It was my first time on a plane. We went to a few touristy spots including a water park, Casaloma, the top of the CN tower and a few days at my aunts VERY nice, fairly large house in Brampton. It was a fun time for a 14 year old.
Other than that, we would go camping for a night or two, spend a day at a park, a weekend at a relative's house an hour's drive away. Nothing big but at the time it was something to look forward to.
Up until last year, I remember saying that I don't think I could ever really care about traveling. Sure, I'd like to see certain places but it was never a necessity. I always figured going somewhere temporary wasn't worth the money put into it and I'd rather focus on more permanent things such as rent, the potential for moving somewhere else and other living costs.
It's so weird how things can change in the blink of an eye.
Last June, my parents took me on a 2-week trip to Germany and Holland. It's been over half a year and I still remember vivid details from specific events and things I did while there as if it happened today. At times, I get overwhelmed by memories from Europe and I actually feel a little homesick. It makes me somewhat depressed that there's a chance I might never go back over there again. I want to experience other countries but I also really want to go back to where I was.
A month later, I went to Toronto for the first time on my own for nearly a week. Again, it was a trip I thoroughly enjoyed because I got to experience the city on my own terms and I did fall in love. I know some people that actually hate Toronto but I really enjoyed it.
Since then, I've joined Adam on a few road-trips to Boston, which were also enjoyable. They were only weekend visits so I haven't been able to experience much but still enough to ease my newfound itch to travel.
Tomorrow, we leave for New York City for a week. My first time there and I'm excited! I'm not really sure what to expect in the way of everyday life in New York but I've got my mind set on different areas and things I want to see and photograph and simply experience. Will NYC have a bigger effect on me than Toronto? Will I want to scrap my plan to move to Toronto and make it a move to New York?
I never thought I'd like traveling but just the idea of seeing different places and meeting different people makes it so appealing. I like going to places and not so much doing touristy things. I don't care much for museums but I like exploring on my own, finding odd shops, walking through streets and parks and looking at architecture, record stores, coffee shops, landscapes, etc. Imagining as if I live where I'm visiting for the short time I'm there. It's a getaway in more ways than one.
Over the next week or so, I'll be updating with photos and stuff from my trip. Also be sure to check out the travels section as well. I'll likely include more photos in there by the end of it.
Travels
I just added a new Travel section to my photography page which now finally has pictures from my trip to Europe last year as well as a few from Toronto. I'll add more as I travel, which is occasionally. For now, check out these pictures!
Crossing the border
Spending a few days in Boston before heading back to Newfoundland for Christmas. It's already been an adventure! Most of which occurred at the actual Canadian/American border. Adam is driving a car, a 2009 Audi, owned by his mother while his car is in the shop. But... how can someone so young own a car so expensive? No. Are we taking the car down to sell it? uhhh... lol. Not quite. It's borrowed. But, we were missing some vital information that, upon a search by the guards, they found themselves because, well, I personally don't know what these papers look like... :/
But they called Adam's mother and she vouched for us pleasantly and we were on our way.

























